Eh it's unavoidable. No use in getting upset about it. I sometimes consider introducing her to ladder theory so she understands their motivation, but I know she'll then use that knowledge against me and my female friends.
Oh hell no. One is 6' 8" the other is 6' 6". Anyway, there is the benefit of having a great comfort in all my shoes and getting great brick and rock work.
exactly, i'm not threatened by them. but it is like god just **** off, the only reason you hover around my girl 24/7 is so that she can cry on your shoulder when things between us go south and then there is your chance. too bad she thinks they are "harmless" and like her "gay friends". bull****, i'm a guy..i know how they think. lol.
I would rather sound insecure then be disrespected. Its not politically correct but I'm going to be honest, the only way most men can be a true friend to a women is if their is zero physical attraction.
Platonic friendships are possible though, just not common. Also if you get friendzoned, you need to accept it or you'll be one of those desperate losers that OP mentioned lol.
what is the ladder theory?? and you're right about her using it against our female friends...but as hypocritical as this sounds...there is a big difference between a GFs guy friends, and a BF girl friends. all her guy friends would bang her the second they get the chance....
No. Why? If you're doing the right thing and you keep your gal and maintain, they're just desperate losers you'd like to help. Aren't they?
AGREED. This weekend we were drunk and ran into them...they all hovered around her and kept coming up to her the whole night without even acknowledging me. it was the most annoying thing ever...I finally lost it when we were trying to buy drunk pizza and the dude showed up for the 10th time that night. I pushed him and said "just **** off man"...cops came and threw me out 2 seconds later.
Don't know why a guy would want to be friends with a girl who has a boyfriend anyways. Unless they enjoy being in the friendzone
they are like parasites. they befriend her cuz (honestly) they can't get any girls on their own, so they try to be best friends with girls with BFs and then the second they get an opportunity to take advantage..they will pounce on her like hungry dogs.
I dont understand the problem...I have female friends...she has male friends...and nobody is being sketchy, shady, or cheating. And it'll remain that way, so no need for anyone to be upset about friendships.
Don't be so hard on the guys. Were men ourselves, Who hasn't hit on a girl who's in a relationship? The problem is not the guys,the problem is your girl not realizing that these guys are not her friends. She should have had more respect for you. Honesty is the key, I don't care if people blast me but as the man we are not greater or superior to women but it is our job to lead. Explain to her that these guys are just trying to get in her pants and that is she really wants things to work she needs to let these supposed male friends go.
Just remember, a shoulder to cry on = a dick to ride on. Never let your girl talk about her problems with you with her guy friends.
Yes, but how old are you? Most mature adults are able to handle stuff like this. Immature kids....not so much.
