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Should I pursue this girl?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by H-Town Info, Mar 7, 2011.

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  1. H-Town Info

    H-Town Info Member

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    I actually meet her online about month ago on a dating website. We have hung with each other a few times in a span of a month. She's pretty awesome and want to be more than friends. Just found out a few days ago, she's in just got into a long-distance relationship with friend she has known for a couple of years. He's coming into this weekend for a week for spring break and currently a first year law student.

    Should I tell how I feel about her before the bf comes into town and risk everything including my friendship with her. Or, should I just leave it alone with her and bf? Suggestions?
     
    #1 H-Town Info, Mar 7, 2011
  2. JayZ750

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    I don't know why you wouldn't tell her? I'm sure she could be a great friend to have, but you met her on an online dating site - it should be somewhat obvious what both your goals were. Even if she does become a good friend if u don't say anything, you'll always be thinking about it in the back of your mind.
     
    #2 JayZ750, Mar 7, 2011
  3. VanityHalfBlack

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    fleshlight.....
     
    #3 VanityHalfBlack, Mar 7, 2011
  4. Master Baiter

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    Just think about how this chick is going to try to figure out every possible way to get this dude's custard launcher into every orifice that she can and most likely succeed. More than once. And like every second of it. Begging for more.

    There are too many women out there. Go find another. Especially if she's hunting guys from all over the country on dating sites.
     
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  5. REEKO_HTOWN

    REEKO_HTOWN I'm Rich Biiiiaaatch!

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    stop talking to her all together. This will not end well.
     
    #5 REEKO_HTOWN, Mar 7, 2011
  6. amaru

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    I would leave this one alone. If she is currently in a relationship and still searching dating sites, then you can expect this to probably happen while she is in a relationship with you.

    Just my $0.02
     
    #6 amaru, Mar 7, 2011
  7. H-Town Info

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    She isn't on the site anymore and happened after I first met her...
     
    #7 H-Town Info, Mar 7, 2011
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    You're obviously in the friend zone and should stop being a p*ssy in the future.
     
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  9. arjun

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    give her time after her date....talk to her see how things are going between them....if its not so swell then make ur move!
     
    #9 arjun, Mar 7, 2011
  10. No Worries

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    Long distance relationships go boom.

    Be there to take advantage of the situation.

    Patience, grasshopper.
     
    #10 No Worries, Mar 7, 2011
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    custard launcher? really?
     
    #11 thegary, Mar 7, 2011
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    She started a long-distance relationship (i.e. ****-buddy) with some other dude after she met you online?

    Oh, yes. You should ABSOLUTELY pursue her.
     
    #12 ima_drummer2k, Mar 7, 2011
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    Frog..............
     
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    Pursue now, or you just wasted a month.
     
    #15 dntrwl, Mar 7, 2011
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    never gives up, trust your instincts
     
    #16 Royals Ego, Mar 7, 2011
  17. H-Town Info

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    She did changed her status on FB with him as her BF.

    I think I'm going to tell her tonight or tomorrow in person. I understand the risks of everything and she might not be my friend anymore. Don't want to live with any regrets that i could of, would of, should of
     
    #17 H-Town Info, Mar 7, 2011
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    You met her via a dating website and just became friends?
     
    #18 Oski2005, Mar 7, 2011
  19. ima_drummer2k

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    What did she changed her status to?
     
    #19 ima_drummer2k, Mar 7, 2011
  20. MadMax

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    that's it..that's all you can do. regret for things undone sucks.
     
    #20 MadMax, Mar 7, 2011
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