Is it a lost art? Everyone will tell you that you find someone when you're not looking, but what about when you are? Sure it's easy to buy a girl a drink at a club, but other than that, how do you play it? I date a lot, but it's usually through mutual friends. I always felt that I should walk up and talk to more women. So what works for you guys? ------------------ the best there is, the best there was, the best there ever will be.
The gift of gab is the key. Usually, a sincere approach sans a cheesy pick up line is good. A sense of humor doesn't hurt either. If all else fails, use the sympathy tactic. A funny, but often successful strategy I used went something like this: Me: Hey, would you like to dance? (This is also appropriate with 'Hey, can I buy you a drink?') Female: No, thanks. Me: OH!! I am so sorry....I forgot...I'm ugly. Sorry! Then you turn to walk away. If they stop you, then the ice is broken, usually. ------------------ My doctor says I am bipolar. I am going to get a second opinion. I have never had intimate desires for polar bears.
Just say something! Pretty girls are often left alone because most guys are afraid to say anything! In my early 20's it was a drought as far as women are concerned. Once I started simply saying something, it became easy!(or maybe THEY were easy, DAOOH) Just be a friend...then be a special friend ------------------ This space left intentionally blank...
You CANNOT be afraid to talk to a girl. It's the one thing I had going for me. Bob Seger said it best: Ain't good looking, but you know I ain't shy. Ain't afraid to look a girl, in the eye. Don't fidget, don't look around, look her in the eye, smile, and TALK. No pauses. Take what she has to say and expand on it. (Without bragging). Even if you get shot down in flames, at least make conversation on your way to the crash. Editor's note: I haven't dated in 17 years, so none of this might not work anymore. But I still look women in the eyes and talk to them. Seems to work well after all these years. ------------------ It looks like a veteran can Be had.
Eye contact is the most important thing, believe it! Establish good eye contact and give her a look that you want her, get a smile and the rest is easy.. ------------------ Rarely is the question asked: Guns kill squirrels than REDRUM to fools across the nation?
Talk all you want. Look into the eyes all you want Give wanting looks all you want. But remember that is just marketing, you must close the sale. At some point, you must make your intentions clear beyond a shadow of a doubt. They will not wait too long. Count of them having more than one guy at a time talking to them. You must beat the other to the punch, or you are forever going to be the one who talks nice, makes them laugh, and looks in there eye...but the jerk will walk away with the girl. Look to respect the jerk approach. Ask for a kiss. Ask for sex. ASK!! They want you to ask, or you need to move on to another. The sooner you find out the sooner you will find one.
reminds me of Mars (Spike Lee) in "She's Gotta Have It" please baby, please baby, baby, baby, please!
One thing that did work for me once. I have a LOT of chest hair, and have since I was young. Once I was dancing with a friend at a club with a shirt that zipped halfway down the front. It was hot, so I had it all the way down. A girl came on to the dance floor, cut between my friend and me, and started rubbing my chest hairs, telling me how much she loved a man with hairy chest. The rest was easy! Sometimes you don't even have to try. ------------------ It looks like a veteran can Be had. [This message has been edited by Newbiehad (edited July 11, 2001).]
Hmm, I wonder if it works with a hairy back? Ewww!!! ------------------ My doctor says I am bipolar. I am going to get a second opinion. I have never had intimate desires for polar bears.
Colby has the idea. Get them drunk !!!! LOL !!! I used to ask girls out over the phone, and it was nerve racking. I'm definitely not the kind of guy who picks up a girl at the bar, that's way too much for me. ------------------ "norm, would you like to buy an indian scalp ? This deal isn't gonna make or break me Norm, so don't jerk me around." Harry Carey "Norm, if I had a mohawk scalp, I wouldn't be sitting here talking to you."
I was 19. There's no such thing as boring sex at age 19! Either you got laid or you didn't. ------------------ It looks like a veteran can Be had.
Initiating the conversation is half the battle..................... If that dosen't work, then get them drunk like Colby. ------------------
Does it work with a hairy ass? I've got that one covered. ------------------ All hail Fadeaway's Cyberfish -- your 2000-2001 BobFinn* Fantasy Basketball League Champions!
What woman doesn't love a hairy ass? ------------------ Why not visit MovieForums.com? Or FilmDallas.com?
TMI, dude. ------------------ I'm so amazingly cool you could keep a side of meat in me for a month. I am so hip that I have difficulty seeing over my pelvis.
This is by far the funniest thread I have ever read! To quote a line from Varsity Blues...Colby, "do you think you'll enjoy prison?" ------------------ Anger is a weed. Hate is a tree.
Me: would u like to go out some time? Woman: No Me: Im going to go kill myself, Thanks alot ya dumb B*(#* ------------------ I do not believe in god. And it is nice to know that I am going to hell with Hitler, and McVeigh. Although I do not know why.
I just thought this should be emphasized. Unfortunately, I was already married before learning this lesson. ------------------
