Just had an amazing date tonight with a beautiful woman. We've known each other for about 10 years and we've gone on a few dates recently. I kissed her on the cheek to say goodbye but she seemed sad it wasn't a real one. Then I started to ask myself...am I prude? I wait three months before kissing a girl. I wait six months before doing anything sexual. I wait a year and a half before having sex. So...?
Haha. I have respect for LGBT community, but definitely not gay. I just want things to be meaningful.
Finally a grown up adult with a quandary. While waiting a year and half before sex is WAY beyond what I could handle if I were serious about a great girl, you read like a gentleman and a scholar, a fine judge of whiskey and women and there are dam few of us left.
Gentlemanly at best. How bout the girl thou? Is she a prude herself? Maybe she can't hardly wait anymore for you to finally release the kraken.
What is the word, serendipity? I thought of creating the same thread after last night. And then it shiws up. We went salsa dancing and had a nice kiss in the car afterwards. But I left. I don't think prude is the right word. But I can say women often won't give you a second chance when they are ready Cheers Wish me well too. My excuse is I had a date with my new bike for a 530am ride with friends and she knew it. So maybe she was testing me with the first kiss.
he asks if he is being a prude and then says he waits 6 months to do anything sexual...... .....are we being trolled? Spoiler
If you want things to be meaningful then don't create arbitrary rules for dating. Do what feels natural.